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What To Do In Paris – Visit Sites Frozen Centuries Ago

October 12th, 2011

What to do in to Paris and which sites to visit is what travelers want to know. They do not know where to start, or they were poorly adviced. In few words, the wisest starting site in a visit to Paris is a French village romantically frozen in the 17th. century; and she is placed in the heart of Paris. Her name is Ile de Saint Louis.

 

She is not for everyone, however; but you will reverence this place if…

* You adore the feeling of a small town.

* You perceive beauty in a historic environment.

* You want to savor finer meals at sidewalk cafés.

* You want to integrate and to live life like locals do.

 

This article discloses what to do in Paris in a visit to sites of worth, and visiting Paris sites that exalt feelings without breaking your budget.

 

. The bridge connecting Ile de Saint Louis and her sister Ile de la Cité is a must-visit site in Paris because of street performers. They are artists in their own right that entertain you as you nibble on another Paris tradition: an ice cream of top-notch quality. Several places on the island sell Berthillon Ice Cream, but you may want to see its place of birth at 31, rue St. Louis-en-l’lle.

 

. Ile de Saint Louis has many restaurants. Their quality food and ambience are enjoyable. One word of caution, though: prices are expensive. Some of them serve fabulous food without breaking your budget, however. Just find one or two local guys willing to disclose where to eat well for a reasonable price.

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. A charming place hosting great jazz players almost every night. Like most everything in the island, the building dates back to 17th. century. Pleasantly, it does not overflow with tourists. It is highly recommend to refrain from bringing tourists’ paraphernalia, and to not speak loudly. Parisiennes consider loud conversations distasteful, and certainly rude.

 

. One thing you must learn about is “Laissez-Faire.” It has two meanings: 1.- It is an economy doctrine opposing governmental interference beyond a minimum necessary. 2.- French people use the financial term to imply “Let people do as they prefer.” Ile de Saint Louis is the place where to see it in action.

 

What to do in a visit to Paris sites is not hard. Wisely decide getting started at Ile de Saint Louis to engulf yourself in enriching experiences without breaking your budget. Part of your decision are Paris sites to visit of great interest which are not far from the island. Judge for yourself.

 

. It is the river that baths the island. Get intimate with this river by simply walking her bridges. If you can see beauty, there are qualities that make them desirable to discover.

 

. Modern art museum worth visiting if only to see the outside fascinating architecture. Should you choose to walk inside, you have a free ground-floor exhibit, a gift shop worth walking in just to see it, and a large Book Store with titles on nearly every topic of fine art.

 

. She is one Paris must-visit sites of impressive qualities and history. She was chosen as the location for the classic film “The Hunchback of Notre Dame.” It is worth taking time to know this unique Paris site. If you dedicate your time to know her, she makes you feel like you are not in the XXI century; but transported centuries back in time.

What to do in a Paris visit ~if your physical condition permits~ mandates to walk up her spiral stairs. You experience a unique moment when you have a close encounter with the famous Gargoyles of Notre Dame, and the celebrated Hunchback of Notre Dame Bell. Once at the top, you breathlessly admire a stunning and invigorating view of Paris sites.

 

 is a must-visit site in Paris, but a healthy 3 miles walk from the cathedral; or you may use transportation. A mile from Eiffel Tower, one must visit a Paris site of pride to French people: . Then, a short walk to fill your eyes at .

 

What to do in a Paris visit to sites of splendor ~without breaking your budget~ is rewarding if you wisely start your Paris visit in a site frozen in the 17th. century. Then, some walking and climbing; and altogether places in your heart and embeddes in your mind experiences, memories, and stories that everyone finds fascinating to hear you elaborating on a trip that took you centuries back in time. Trust me.

 

* George Josserme
* Editor-in-Chief
* The View – Visiting France & Paris

The author’s French origins, and down-to-earth common sense,
are both used to give travellers knowledge they can really use.

His article Are French People Rude? ~and another one of great
success What To Do In Paris Visit – Sites Of Majestic Grandeur~
are prime examples of the value he passes on to wiser travelers.

All his articles may be used as content in a family web site. The
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Using Persistence And Passion To Win Your Father’s Rights Case In Court

October 11th, 2011

Divorce can be a long battle through the court system, and while going over property separation, financial support and how you’re both going to parent your children together, we tend to lose sight of what is most important–the children.  When you’re fighting against your ex-wife in court for your father’s rights of your children, all the arguing in the world will get you nowhere.  In fact, it’s persistence and passion that will pay off in the end.   

It’s important to learn how to get your father’s rights message across without upsetting the judge or any other decision makers in the case.  Know that you are a confident, capable person that has his heart in the right place and wants to be a true father to his children–just because you’re the dad doesn’t mean you shouldn’t get full custody of your children after a divorce.  Many fathers complain, saying their state is more “mother friendly” and that getting custody is next to impossible unless your ex-wife is a drug user or can be proven mentally incapable of caring for the children on her own.  But this is definitely not the case, and this negative talk shouldn’t be considered when working on your own custody case through the courts.  Know that confidence is the key to success! 

Another way to gain confidence in your case is by doing your research and turning the case around in your favor.  Instead of just being on the defense, take on some of the offense and throw your ex-wife and her attorney off track.  By turning the case around, you achieve what is called “case dominance” and will have the upper hand in the courtroom against your ex-wife.  This is a wonderful feeling for any father to have! 

Remember, passion and persistence will show when you have the confidence to achieve anything!  Case domination will happen when your confidence shows and you show the judge that your true passion is protecting and being a father to your children.  Because really, when it boils down to it, that’s what really matters anyway.

For a wealth of free information on Father’s Rights winning information, check out Dennis Gac’s website at fathershelphotline.com.  Gac is often referred to as the world’s number one father’s rights consultant, and has helped thousands of fathers get their children through the court systems, despite everything society has against them.  Join Dennis Gac and the National Brotherhood of Father’s Rights!

DNA Adoption Networking

October 11th, 2011

With advances in computer technology and DNA science, it seemed likely that a way would be found for the far-flung children of China to find their birth families. That day seemed far off in the future. However that day is here now, and it has arrived 20 years before I expected it. A new kind of internet website provides the means for adopting parents of children adopted from China to discover if their child has a sibling, half-sibling, cousin or other relative adopted anywhere in the world. In addition, birth parents in China will be able to search for their biological child who has been adopted by a family living somewhere in the world. While China adoptions are the largest example of what is now possible, it applies to every adoption in the world today. I don’t think it is an overstatement to say that this is the most startling development in the field of adoption information in the past 25 years.

There are two new kinds of sites in particular that seem useful to the adoption community. They are interesting because both kinds are the first of a new genre of websites. The first are DNA social networking sites; the second are primarily gene-decoding sites.

1. DNA Adoption Networking

DNA Adoption Networking is a part of a new internet service the New York Times has called Zygotic Social Networking. These networking services permit users to build a social network around shared genetic material. Similar to Facebook, users are able to post photos, update their profiles, blog, and send messages to each other. More importantly, for adoptive families they facilitate searches for relatives and allow members to compare genetic makeup.

Basically, you sign up with the service, do a cheek swab, send it in, and a portion of your genetic makeup gets compared to others on the databank. You or someone else (somewhere in the world) can then click on a map that shows a marker for every other member around the world who shares genetic markers found in your DNA profile.

Perhaps even more amazing is that the creators of these sites believe that we are only at the beginning of their abilities and usefulness. Experts believe that every new discovery in the field of genetics will provide the users with new information about their identities.

A broad spectrum of the adoption community will be able to make use of these sites:

(i) who placed a child for adoption (or perhaps abandoned a child) can search for their child worldwide with one registration.
(ii) When a become teenagers or young adults, they often want to find out more about their roots. While they may not find their birth parents immediately, they may locate other relatives. In order to identify siblings, half-siblings, cousins or grandparents, it will be necessary for one of their biological parents to register on the site (At this time you need a parent to also register in order to say definitively that two relatives are siblings). Those relatives may turn up immediately or a decade or two later as new relatives register on the site.
(iii) . Life is long, and at some point when adopted children have become adults, they frequently want to look for their roots. While adoptive parents today usually explain to their children that they were adopted, that has not always been the case, nor is it universally true. As a result, individuals registering on these sites, who had no idea that they were adopted, may be in for a surprise.
(iv) who want to find siblings, birth parents, or other relatives of their adopted child can register their child. Parents registering children over 13 require the child’s agreement to do this. In fact, it appears that inquisitive adopted teenagers could likely register themselves if they have access to 9.
(v) may want to include information about DNA Adoption Networking in their adoption education programs. It’s a reality check for parents who state they want to adopt, but never want anything to do with the birth family and that’s why they want to adopt overseas. At some point their child may register and find relatives in other countries.

Not everyone involved in adoption will want to participate in this worldwide experiment in genealogical research. While most adopted children want to know who their biological parents are, this is not always true. However, for those who do want to know where their child is, or who their biological parent is, these websites are already producing results and matches. An ABC News video clip, which is accessed by a link on the GeneTree.com home page, includes an interview with an adopted adult who only knew his birth date and place, and subsequently found relatives in several parts of the world.

Since DNA Adoption Networking will essentially provide a worldwide adoption reunion registry, people should think carefully before registering. While anyone can use one of these sites, special precautions need to be taken when they are used by the adoption community. Some individuals may wish to obtain counselling before registering. Adoption Reunion Registries are located in most jurisdictions in North America and they frequently provide counselling to the parties both before and after a reunion.

What makes these sites so different from the sites described next is that no genetic information is given back to you (the participant).

2. DNA Gene Decoding Sites

The second type of service now on the web that will impact adoptions is the ability to decode your child’s DNA. Adoptive families will find this site useful for many reasons. Your child’s DNA is decoded, providing you with much valuable information. The experience is simultaneously unsettling, illuminating and empowering.

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While these decoding sites provide the opportunity for DNA Adoption Networking, that seems to be a by-product of their main function, which is to decode your DNA. For the adoption world, services like this have extraordinary implications, including:

(i) In the majority of adoptions in the world, there is little or no information about the birth father. This includes domestic adoptions, as well as adoptions from other parts of the world. Decoding your child’s DNA will provide you with significant information about the birth father and the birth mother. The websites claim they allow you to look 20 or 40 years into the future at significant DNA markers that will affect your child’s health (such as pre-disposition to certain diseases).
(ii) Once registered with some sites, you will be automatically advised over the next 10, 20 or 30 years, as medical science makes new discoveries and advances.
(iii) In some situations DNA decoding may become available as part of pre-adoption medical and social information about the child. Currently, parents receive limited medical information, photographs, and sometimes a video. Perhaps in the future a DNA swab will become part of this pre-adoption information package.
(iv) As countries become more selective about whom may adopt their children (such as China) will they want DNA tests of the adopting parents? Adopting Parents already have to supply medical and lab reports as part of a dossier for international adoption. Are DNA reports next?

These websites will bring great opportunities, but also great quandaries. We will no longer have the problem of not knowing, but instead have the burden of whether we want to know in the first place. We will know whether our children are predisposed to certain traits or talents, athletics, music or languages, and we’ll encourage them to pursue certain paths. I have recently described these websites to clients, friends and relatives. It is interesting how many people have said, “But do you really want to know this information?”. Clearly, some people would rather not know and just let the future unfold.

Cautions

Be careful what you wish for. By going down this road, you may be opening a Pandora’s Box. In short, we are on the brink of scientific and technological breakthroughs that are going to change adoption in a way that has never happened before. Please consider the following:

What is more personal than your DNA? Each of these websites has a privacy statement. Please read these before registering. It is important to understand what privacy protection is offered and whether you can set your own level of privacy on the site. Also keep in mind that the world doesn’t always work perfectly. If you put information on the internet, there is a chance of it getting loose by accident or otherwise. There are social, moral and ethical issues involved in registering your or your child’s DNA on a website. Before registering on any site prospective applicants should read the China Adoption DNA Project website where the site creators have considered the implications of parents taking the step of trying to find biological relatives in this way. Please read and think about these issues before registering on a DNA Adoption Networking site. If you join one of these websites and find a match that is important to you, please confirm it with a second and more formal DNA test. An article in the October Journal of Science warned that popular do-it-yourself DNA tests could produce incomplete results. These websites have just started up. It will take time for enough families to register worldwide for there to be many matches of close relatives. Keep your expectations low for now and check in from time to time Men can get a lot more out of DNA testing than women because they inherit both an x and y chromosome. For women to get the same results, they need to supply a sample from a close male relative like a brother or father. The scientific words and terminology used on these websites can be challenging. Some sites have a glossary or definition section. That’s a good place to start in understanding this field of research.

A recent survey of adopting parents (by the China Adoptions DNA Project) found that while the adoption community is keenly interested in learning more about how a DNA database could benefit their children and families, the overwhelming majority of parents currently do not know enough about it or are not comfortable enough with what they do know to take the next step and join a database. I encourage adoptive families to spend time on the DNA websites listed at the end of this article. Review their DNA science lessons, read the FAQ’s and watch the videos. You will learn a lot.

Of course, if you’re only registered on one site, it reduces the possibility of matches. Perhaps all the members of the adoption triad in the world who want to share this information should register on only one of these sites , or on a site yet to be created specifically for the adoption community. In the future there will undoubtedly be more of these kinds of websites, and their usefulness will advance as science advances. If you do register with one of the websites listed below, let us know about your experience with it.

Websites to Visit A. DNA ADOPTION NETWORKING SITES

1. www.GeneTree.com

This service:

operates world-wide; is easy to understand and easy to use; is free (except for the DNA swab collection kit – 9); matches relatives (such as cousins), which greatly increases the chances of finding out more information about the child’s family of origin.

The site is part of a worldwide genealogical and genetic research project. Anyone who joins is a participant in this project. (Unfortunately, this information is not made clear on the website until a registrant orders a DNA swab kit and is presented with a 6-page contract to sign.) Parents who don’t like the trade-off of being part of a research project may want to pass on registering. Others will be happy to be part of a DNA research project that also provides the opportunity for free DNA Adoption Networking. This site is headquartered in Salt Lake City, Utah, which is already known as the largest center of genealogical research in the world. Clearly, they want to make it bigger.

When you order your DNA swab kit (9) you will be asked to sign a 6-page contract. Read it carefully. It has some interesting terms, including:

you are a participant in a research study; no genetic information is provided back to you; you can withdraw from the study at any time and have your information deleted; while this site will match two voluntary users of the site together if they want, the site will not get involved in providing adoption or paternity information (that it may learn of) to anyone.

The website has a “Facebook” aspect to it, except you are networking with people you share similar DNA with around the world instead of your chosen friends. Participants set their own level of privacy on this site. In other words, you can register your DNA and then set privacy parameters as to the disclosure of information and whether you want contact with other members of your extended family. Of course, in addition to privacy concerns, the idea of adoptive families around the world registering their DNA on a master database certainly has a “Big Brother” feel to it. As a result, this service may not appeal to everyone.

2. www.dnaancestry.com

This site is part of www.ancestry.com and allows you to use DNA to search for ancestors, clans and by surname groups. www.ancestry.com is an established genealogical research site also headquartered in Utah. It already has a user base of 15 million, of which 3 million have posted their searchable family trees. It is the internet’s largest family-history archive. The test kit costs 9 to 9, depending on how sophisticated you want the results to be.

3. www.familytreedna.com

This website claims to have the largest DNA databases in the field of Genetic Genealogy (178,000 records). Their website includes tutorials on the use of your DNA. It also has a DNA user’s forum which has posts from adoptees who have had varying degrees of success at finding relatives. The tests cost 9 to 9.

4. www.a-chinadnaproject.org

Although this site is not yet operational as a registry, it does have interesting things to say. It is a site worth reading and thinking about the points raised there. In addition to searching for relatives, a second, equally important mission of the website, is to create a voluntary, anonymous DNA database that will provide information that could benefit all Asians of Chinese descent. The China Adoptions DNA project states numerous times on this website that it is not yet underway since it has no funding. It worries about the costs to parents and the cost of providing the service. Some adopting parents will want to wait and see if this adoption-oriented website becomes operational because of the additional safeguards that have been created for the adoption community.

5. www.tracegenetics.com

This site has an extensive FAQ section that will teach the reader a lot about this area of science in understandable language. It offers testing for both the child’s maternal and paternal lineage. It then issues a report based on the percentage of ancestry from each of the world’s biogeographical areas. This site claims to have the largest Native American DNA database in the world. This website will also provide you with custom DNA projects. You can tailor your genomic requests to what you want. B. DNA GENE DECODING SITES

6. www.23andme.com

This is a web-based service that helps you understand your DNA. Send in a sample of your child’s saliva and see how the decoded genes indicate your child’s future. This site is partly funded by Google. The cost for a DNA analysis is 9, and you will receive a report analyzing almost 600,000 DNA checkpoints.

At this time their service is only available in the USA, Europe and Canada, although it will expand in the future to other countries. In response to my question to this site as to whether adopting parents could use it to have the DNA decoded for a child proposed to them for adoption, the response was “Our service is not intended to be used for genetic screening purposes.”

Mr. Douglas Chalke has been the Executive Director of Sunrise Family Services Society (a British Columbia government licensed adoption agency) since its inception twelve years ago. Mr. Chalke has considerable experience with international adoption and has visited orphanages and government ministries across the world. Mr. Chalke is an administrator with many years experience assisting children to find homes in Canada, and in assessing, educating and approving the families who are going to provide those homes.

Find Hidden Divorce Money From Your Tax Return

October 10th, 2011

It’s almost mind boggling how many spouses rely on their significant other to do the taxes. Most of them don’t even look at them. They just want to know the bottom line and where to sign. Check your tax return. Do the numbers correspond to what you’ve earned, spent and saved? Do the 1099s seem to be in order? Interest and dividends are reported there, along with the names of the financial institutions. Make sure you know where your assets are invested and where the accounts are kept.

I have seen a spouse pay significant income taxes, often when the payment greatly exceeds the actual income tax debt. After the divorce is over, then an amended return is filed along with a request for a refund of the over payment. In this way cash that would normally have been divided between the spouses was used for income tax payments, and the refund is not shared.

Another trick, especially for a spouse who manages property or a business, is to take steps to devalue the property over time, so that when it comes to allocate the value of the asset, the managing spouse gets the benefit of the lower value. This may include allowing rental property to remain vacant or in disrepair. Another example is to contact a business’ customers to defer payments of accounts receivable until after the divorce is finalized. Then when the accounts are finally paid, the managing spouse gets the benefit of the cash, and also the increased value of the business now with current accounts.

Income tax returns are the first place to look for possible clues as to the existence of undisclosed assets. They provide the road map to the discovery of income earning assets and asset sales. Typically, the tax return should also describe the source of all income, whether it be rents received from rental property, interest on a bank account, dividends on stocks, gain or loss on the sale of stock, and the like. In reviewing the tax returns, the attached schedules are far more important than the summary entries on the first two pages. In any event, each page of the tax return should be carefully reviewed. You can get a report at Divorce Ammo.

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Grandparents Rights Virginia Custody Visitation Maryland Massachusetts Lawyers Laws

October 9th, 2011

MARK MERRITT, SR. AND JAYNE MERRITT v. SANDRA-JOY GRAY

COURT OF APPEALS OF VIRGINIA

Following the death of the child’s biological mother, father did not allow grandmother to visit with the child for some eleven months. In August 1994, grandmother filed a petition seeking visitation with her grandson. In January 1995, around the time father relocated with his family to Nashville, Tennessee, the parties entered into an Agreed Order in the juvenile and domestic relations district court incorporating their agreement that visitation of the child with grandmother was in the child’s best interests. The court order fixed specific dates of visitation on two designated weekends. In April 2001, parents sent a letter to grandmother stating that they wanted more authority over visitation and desired to reduce the child’s visits with her. In May 2001, father filed a petition to modify the 1995 consent order.  On February 20, 2002, the juvenile and domestic relations district court denied father’s petition, finding that the reasons given by father did not constitute a “material” change in circumstances.  Father appealed the denial of his petition to modify the 1995 order to the circuit court.

Whether the trial court erred in finding that the changes in circumstances were not sufficient to warrant modification of the 1995 Agreed Order?

Whether the trial court erred in not applying an “actual harm” analysis in determining whether continued visitation with grandmother by child was in his best interest?

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Whether the trial court erred in ruling that the parent had permanently “waived their constitutional rights” as a result of entering into the 1995 consent order?

Whether the trial court erred in finding that the changes in circumstances were not sufficient to warrant modification of the 1995 Agreed Order?

The trial court found that the time the child spent visiting with grandmother was not of a degree to conflict with his increased activities. It noted that grandmother accommodated the child’s increased activities when those scheduled activities occurred when the child visited her, noting specifically that she took the child to his scheduled football practices, and accommodated his scouting trips when they occurred during her visitation periods. The trial court also found that the family’s return to Northern Virginia where grandmother resided did not make visitation more difficult. The court held that the changes were not “material changes in circumstances, which would warrant modification of the existing Court order.” We conclude that the trial court did not err in finding that the changes in circumstances were not sufficient to warrant modification of the 1995 Agreed Order governing visitation and that there is credible evidence in the record to support its decision.

Whether the trial court erred in not applying an “actual harm” analysis in determining whether continued visitation with grandmother by child was in his best interest?

The court held that since the trial court found that no material changes in circumstances had occurred to warrant modifying the consent order, including that continuing visitation was in the best interests of the child, it was not necessary for it to apply the “actual harm” test in determining whether to modify the 1995 Agreed Order.

Whether the trial court erred in ruling that the parent had permanently “waived their constitutional rights” as a result of entering into the 1995 consent order?

The court held that the parents, unquestionably fit parents, entered into the Agreed Order in March of 1995 that not only permitted visitation but also announced their agreement that such visitation was in the best interests of their child. Here, the parents never voiced opposition to visitation occurring.  We find no indication in the record that the trial court ruled that parents’ consent to the entry of the 1995 Agreed Order, granting to grandmother limited visitation with the child, divested them permanently of their constitutionally protected interests in the care and control of their child.  There is no showing in the record before us that the trial court failed to “accord at least some special weight” to the parents’ determination of visitation periods when those decisions were presented to it. As we noted above, parents voluntarily “waived” their parental rights to a limited degree by asking the court to assist in the establishment of times of visitation when the parties were unable to agree. As the trial court noted in announcing its decision from the bench, the parents could not reduce the consent order to “a sham” by de facto refusing to agree to any times for visitation.  The trial court did not err in concluding that the parents waived their constitutional rights to a limited degree when they entered into a consent order agreeing that their child’s visitation with his grandmother was in his best interests.

We affirmed the Judgment of trial court.

These summaries are provided by the SRIS Law Group.  They represent the firm’s unofficial views of the Justices’ opinions.  The original opinions should be consulted for their authoritative content.

The SRIS Law Group Grandparents Rights Lawyers assist grandparents with custody and visitation rights so that they may visit or obtain custody of their grandchildren in Virginia, Maryland & Massachusetts.

Divorce Attorneys For Women Staunton Virginia:Child Support

October 8th, 2011

Divorce Attorneys For Women Staunton Virginia:Child Support
by www.StauntonDivorce.com

For the most part, child support payments are used for the ordinary expenses of food, shelter, clothing, education and medication needs for the children only. When determining an award of child support, a court in Staunton Virginia will look at all relevant facts upon the following issues:

The Needs of the children are a top concern for the courts in Staunton, VA. For example, a child with a medical condition or a developmentally disabled child will often require a higher level of child support than a healthy child.

The Age of the Children is also a consideration when determining child support payments in Staunton VA. Infants and younger children often cost less to support than older children, however daycare costs, which can be significant, will also be taken into account. Older children have many varying needs, and are looked at on a case by case basis.

The ability of the non custodial parent to pay is also a consideration when the judge in Staunton calculates child support. The court is limited in awarding child support by the ability of a parent to pay based on income from all sources. The new spouse’s earnings are only applicable if they are hiding assets or the paying parent is pleading that they are unable to pay due to debts or custodial parent is trying to show voluntary impoverishment. Generally your ability to pay does not include calculations of bills and debts such as car payments, credit cards, or any other non-essential item.

The earning capacity of the custodial parent will be taken in to account when calculating the amount of child support. Both parents have the responsibility to support their children, not just the parent paying child support. Thus, the earnings or earning capacity of the custodial parent will also be considered when determining child support levels. The custodial parent is not off the hook financially just because they have been awarded custody.

The Other Responsibilities of the Parents are also considered by the judge in Staunton Virginia. The other lawful responsibilities of both parents will also be looked into in determining child support. For example, if the non custodial parent is paying child support from a previous marriage (a common occurrence these days), the court will take that obligation into consideration. Necessities of life, such as rent and food will also be taken into account by the court. However, the court will not reduce child support payments to make it easier for the parent to pay discretionary obligations or luxuries. For example, a parent cannot provide for a charity or buy an expensive car at the expense of providing for his or her own children.

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To assist the court in determining the proper amount of support, both parties will be required by the court to prepare a financial declaration that is signed under penalty of perjury. Each parent will be required to fully disclose their income (from all sources), the nature and extent of their property holdings such as bank accounts, investments and real-estate and their financial responsibilities. The court will rely heavily on these documents in making the order and thus it is in the best interests of the children that the declarations be filled out completely and honestly.

Child support hearings are often adversarial, and sometimes confrontational. That means that when the parents cannot agree on the support order, (sometimes after compelling mediation), the court will hold a hearing to decide the issue. (This is sometimes done in the chambers of the judge in Staunton as a conference.) At the hearing, each spouse (or their lawyer) will have the opportunity to cross examine the other on issues relevant to the support issue and each can subpoena documents and call witnesses to support his or her position as to the amount of child support that should be paid. Child support orders can also be appealed, although the likelihood of success is very slim.

The Virginia legislature has passed a law making it mandatory for the courts to use Child Support guidelines in all cases in which child support is sought. Although use of the guidelines is mandatory and there is a presumption that the guidelines amount is the correct amount to be awarded, the presumption is rebuttable. However, you must complete the guidelines and show the presumptive amount and then explain the rebuttal in the comments section of the guidelines. Parents cannot agree to waive a parent’s child support obligation.

The reason for the implementation of the Guidelines is that the General Assembly has decided that “the law and policy of this State is that the child’s best interest is of paramount importance and cannot be altered by the parties. A parent has a legal obligation to provide support for the child [in proportion to their gross earnings].”

The mathematical computation to determine the Guideline amount is fairly simple. The Legislature provided a form which must be followed:

Determine the gross monthly income of each parent.

a. Minus: alimony and child support paid to a third party and alimony paid in this case;
b. Minus: medical insurance paid for the child;
c. Plus: alimony paid in this case
d. Deductions from Monthly Gross Income allowable by law
e. Equals the adjusted income.

Determine the percentage: (Divide the mother’s Adjusted Income by the Combined Total Adjusted Income. Divide the father’s Adjusted Income by the Combined Total Adjusted Income.)

Obtain the basic child support amount from the table

Add to the table amount (if relevant):

a. work related child care;
b. extraordinary medical expenses;
c. and educational expenses;

Equals the total support obligation

Multiply the total support obligation by each parent’s percentage share of income (line 2). This is the presumed correct amount of child support. The noncustodial parent can also take a deduction for health care coverage when paid directly by the noncustodial parent.

There is a separate form for situations where the parents share physical custody of the children

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Child custody support

October 7th, 2011

Your best bet to understand the child custody laws is your child custody attorney. These laws are quite complex and differ from state to state. In that case these attorneys are the best suited to help you out. In general child custody laws are designed by keeping the interest of the child in mind first. There are a lot of things that both the parents must understand while going through the process of decision for child custody.

All kind of child custody information needs to be understood completely. In general courts do not allow the custody to the abusing partner. There are clearly laid out procedures to deal with the issue of separating parents and their children. In most of the cases courts follow these procedures to decide over the custody of the child. These procedures are basically designed to make sure that the child does not go to the environment where some kind of mental or physical abuse is imminent.

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Some solutions are offered in this regard by the courts. Though, your child custody attorney is definitely going to fight for your case, in many cases courts decide in favor of joint custody. In such cases parents share both the physical and legal custody of the children. That way, both of them become the functional part of raising the children.

In legal terms Legal custody refer to the right and responsibility to take decisions about important issues of health, education and many other things. On the other hand, Physical custody refers to an understanding in which the child largely lives with one parent and goes to live with the other parent in vacations. In general, courts assign both the custody to either of the parents. But, yes, there are circumstances when courts decide in favor of joint custody. In cases custody is awarded to one party, the other one need to pay child custody support.

Child custody support is basically the financial support that the parent with the responsibility of bringing up the child is entitled to get from the other side. Basically, it refers to financial support. This figure comes after looking at various factors. Your child custody attorney will definitely guide you over it. There are many other ways to reach at its figure. There are some portals that offer all kinds of child custody help, and just not the financial details.

Childcustodysupportonline.com is one such portal that brings all the information. It also provide a child custody calculator that helps in figuring out the financial liabilities of a child custody case.

 

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Selecting the best form of child custody

October 7th, 2011

A divorce is never a completely easy procedure. Divorces are almost always messy. The divorce can be particularly difficult when children are involved. Generally it is left to the court to decide which spouse will have custody of the children since the spouses generally do not reach an agreement on the issue of child custody. It is vital, therefore, to understand what the factors are for deciding who gets child custody in a divorce. Typically who receives custody of a child in a divorce will depend on certain characteristics of the parents. The living conditions of each of the parents will be considered, as also income and lifestyle. The fact of the matter is that, typically, a court will grant legal custody to the parent who has had physical custody of the child. Judges generally do not intend to disrupt a child’s life and routine any more than is required. There are other factors that the court will look at in deciding who received custody of a child in a divorce. Factors such as abuse, drug use, illegal activities, or emotional instability can result in the court granting the custody of the child to the other parent.

 

 

There are several different categories of child custody arrangements. When parents go through a divorce, they have the choice of deciding the child custody arrangements on their own. However, in most cases, they are unable to come to an agreeable decision. If this happens, a court will decide the child custody arrangement. There are four basic categories of child custody arrangements- joint legal custody, sole legal custody, sole physical custody, and joint physical custody. While the specifics of each kind can vary from one state to another, they do share certain characteristics. To begin with, there are two categories of legal custody arrangements. Legal custody primarily refers to the rights and responsibilities as they relate to the child and can include things like health, education, and general well-being. In case of joint legal custody, both parents share these responsibilities. Joint legal custody mandates that the parents should be able to work together with one another for the benefits of the children. It also mandates that the parents submit a detailed plan to the court about how the joint legal custody can work. The other sort of legal custody arrangement is sole legal custody, in which one parent has those legal rights and responsibilities. In this type of custody the non-custodial parent can still have visitation rights. However the non-custodial parent will have few other rights regarding the kids. There are also two kinds of physical custody arrangements – sole physical custody and joint legal custody. In the first type – sole physical custody, one parent has the majority of contact with the child, and the child lives exclusively with that parent. In sole physical custody, the non-custodial parent may again still retain visitation rights. Both parents have plenty of contact with the child in case of a joint physical custody. Child custody litigation is complex. Consult with a seasoned divorce law firm.

Kenneth Braxton writes for attorney video directory and find a lawyer resource, Viewmylawyer.com, where you can find a lawyer and view attorney videos.