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		<title>New Options for Child Support Payments</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Non-custodial parents pay child support in a variety of ways.&#0160; &#0160;Divorced parents should be provided with all possible options for making these payments.&#0160; Some new options have emerged both in the public and private sectors.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Non-custodial parents pay child support in a variety of ways.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160;</span>Divorced parents should be provided with all possible options for making these payments.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>Some new options have emerged both in the public and private sectors.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1">&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160; </span>Perhaps the most common way child support is paid is through an income withholding or income deduction order, which is issued to the employer of the payor, and mandates payment of support directly to the recipient.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>In most states income deduction orders have been mandatory unless (1) there is a written agreement between the parties specifying an alternative arrangement, or (2) there is a court order finding good cause against it and finding that the income deduction order is not in the child’s best interest.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1">&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160; </span>However, income deduction orders can be problematic.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>If the payor is self-employed, periodically unemployed, or is paid only on commission, income deduction orders may have little effect.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>Moreover, many payors do not wish to disclose to their employer their private matters. Also, some employers refuse to comply without a court order.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>Further, recipients of support do not want the payor to know their bank account information, which would be necessary if the payor’s employer is to follow the income deduction order.</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1">&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160; </span>Most states have established agencies for the enforcement of child support orders.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160;&#0160; </span>The problem is these agencies have huge case overloads, suffer intermittent backlog of work, and delay in transferring payment to recipient.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>Consequently, many custodial parents have to resort to private suits for enforcement through contempt, garnishment, and use of private child support enforcement companies. Problematically, many private child support enforcement companies charge astronomical fees for their services, deducting a large percentage (as high as 34%) from the child support collected, and in addition, charge annual fees (some as much as $500).</span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1">&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160; </span>In reality, most divorce cases settle privately and, divorce lawyers draft settlement agreements providing for the required “alternative arrangement” for child support payment.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>The settlement agreements include the amount of monthly support due, the manner it shall be paid, how often, and until when.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>A paragraph should also be included in the settlement agreement that provides if payments fall behind more than 30 days, garnishment for support is allowed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1">&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160;&#0160; </span>The most common manner of private payment is still paper check.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>Of course, the worst delivery method is through the child, at the conclusion of the payor’s visitation time.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>When mailed, payment by check sets up the classic problem of “the check is in the mail” and real or false accusations of late receipt.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span></span></p>
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<p class="MsoNormal" style="MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS">SupportCertain is the brainchild of Sue Varon, a Georgia family law attorney and her daughter, Jennifer, an accountant with a Master’s Degree.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes">&#0160; </span>The company was established to provide divorced parties with “the peaceful way to pay”, minimizing interaction between the parties, while providing them with a way to make and receive support directly and on time. For further information, visit </span><a href="http://www.supportcertain.com/"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS">www.supportcertain.com</span></a><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS">or contact SupportCertain at </span><a href="mailto:jennifer@supportcertain.com"><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS">jennifer@supportcertain.com</span></a><span style="FONT-SIZE: 12px; MARGIN: 0in 0in 0pt; TEXT-INDENT: 0.5in; FONT-FAMILY: Trebuchet MS">or at 404 551-4849.</span></p>
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		<title>Contempt Remedies for Non-Compliance with Court Orders</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Apr 2010 00:29:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Factual Scenario:  The Final Judgment and Decree of Divorce has finally been executed by the parties and has been filed with the Court.  But, alas, Husband finds that Wife is not willing to pay what he is supposed to receive from her; and Wife is not forthcoming in dividing the U.S. Savings Bonds that were [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><img title="Contempt Remedies for Non-Compliance with Court Orders" src="http://www.hcmmlaw.com/blog/wp-content/themes/greenline-10/img/contemp.jpg" border="0" alt="contemp.jpg" hspace="9" align="right" /><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Factual Scenario</span></strong>:  The Final Judgment and Decree of Divorce has finally been executed by the parties and has been filed with the Court.  But, alas, Husband finds that Wife is not willing to pay what he is supposed to receive from her; and Wife is not forthcoming in dividing the U.S. Savings Bonds that were acquired during the parties’ marriage; and she is refusing to convey to Husband certain household goods and furnishings as directed in the Final Judgment and Decree of Divorce.</p>
<p><strong>What remedies does Husband have?</strong></p>
<p>The Court does not have a “police force” or “private investigators” to monitor compliance with Final Decrees or Agreed Entries.  There simply is not enough money for the Court to examine whether or not former spouses are following the mandates of their Decrees.  In order for the Court to learn about a party’s non-compliance, the former Husband must file a Motion asking the Court to find his Ex-wife in Contempt of Court for her willful failure to comply with certain terms of the Final Decree or Agreed Entry.  Another name for the same action is for Husband to file a Motion to Show Cause why Wife should not be held in Contempt of Court.  The terms “Motion to Show Cause” and “Motion for Contempt” are used interchangeably.  This is a “civil” contempt action, not a “criminal” contempt action.  The Motion must also contain other information:</p>
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<li>Notice of Hearing: The Court will have to conduct an evidentiary hearing to determine if Wife should be found in contempt of Court.  The Notice will set forth the date and time of the hearing and the name of the Judge or Magistrate who shall conduct the hearing.</li>
<li>In addition to the Motion for Contempt, there must be a notice advising the former Wife that if she is found in contempt of Court, she may be ordered to pay a fine and that she may be sent to jail.  Persons accused of contempt are entitled to constitutional protections, including having an attorney represent him/her.  In all the years that I have practiced Family Law, the only times that I have seen a party sent to jail were in relation to non-payment of child support, which is the most common type of contempt proceeding.</li>
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<p><strong>If Wife is the non-compliant party, must Husband incur more legal expenses to take her back to Court? </strong></p>
<p>Unfortunately, the answer is “yes”.  Again, the system may not seem “fair” but there are no funds or monies available to assist the wronged party.  So, the attorney must advise the potential client that there will be a filing fee involved along with expenses to have the former spouse served with the Motion and Notice of Hearing, and attorney fees to take the matter back to Court.  In Montgomery County, Ohio, the filing fee for post-Decree contempt matters is $125.00 and service of process in a contempt matter must be accomplished by personal service.</p>
<p><strong>If Wife is found to be in contempt of Court, can she be ordered to pay Husband’s reasonable attorney fees and court costs incurred by him?</strong></p>
<p>The Court has the authority to direct the errant Wife to pay to the former Husband his reasonable attorney fees and court costs expended by him in bringing the matter before the Court.  In fact, the threat of having to pay Husband’s attorney fees and court costs may act as an incentive to encourage compliance with the Order.  In Montgomery County Domestic Relations Court, the Local Rule allows the court to assess only a nominal $350 in attorney fees against the contemnor unless another attorney is retained to testify about the necessity and propriety of a request for additional attorney fees. Even upon expending additional money to hire another attorney to appear in Court and testify about the actual attorney fees incurred in pursuing the Contempt matter, the Court has discretion whether to Order any additional attorney fees or not.</p>
<p><strong>Is it “worth it” to bring a Contempt of Court or Show Cause Action?</strong></p>
<p>The answer to that question must be made on an individual case-by-case basis.<strong> </strong>The attorney and client should carefully analyze the costs associated with filing the Motion<strong> </strong>in relation to the financial value of the monies or goods being sought.  In the scenario<strong> </strong>set forth at the beginning of this article, Husband decided it was worth the legal fees<strong> </strong>and court costs to take the matter back to Court.  In that post-Decree matter, he was<strong> </strong>seeking payment of several thousand dollars and saving bonds worth approximately $25,000.  There are instances, however, where it just does<strong> </strong>not make economic sense to spend additional monies going after a “deadbeat” ex-spouse.</p>
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		<title>Child Support &amp; the Self Employed – The Depreciation Deduction</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 16:29:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Buried in DRL 240(1-b) and FCA 413(b)(5) is this often missed clause:
iv) at the discretion of the court, the court may attribute or impute income from, such other resources as may be available to the parent, including, but not limited to: &#8230; (A) any depreciation deduction greater than depreciation calculated on a straight-line basis for [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Buried in DRL 240(1-b) and FCA 413(b)(5) is this often missed clause:</p>
<blockquote><p>iv) at the discretion of the court, the court may attribute or impute income from, such other resources as may be available to the parent, including, but not limited to: &#8230; (A) any depreciation deduction greater than depreciation calculated on a straight-line basis for the purpose of determining business income or investment credits, &#8230;</p>
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<p>I&#8217;ve seen this clause confuse judges and litigants, giving child support orders that are either too high or too low. So what exactly does this mean? In short, it means that some legitimate business deductions permitted by the IRS will not be allowed for determining income for child support.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s take it one step at a time.</p>
<p><strong>Straight Line Depreciation</strong></p>
<p>First, what exactly is depreciation and what is meant by a straight line basis? I&#8217;m going to make up some numbers to make it easier to follow. For this example, all expenses are legitimate; there is no hidden income or artificially inflated expenses.</p>
<p>Let&#8217;s assume someone is self employed, and has gross revenue of $500,000 per year. Obviously, there are certain expenses associated with running a business, and those expenses should be deducted off the gross income. For example, rent, the cost of goods sold, salaries paid and utilities are all deducted off the gross income to determine profit. For this example, let&#8217;s say there are $275,000 in legitimate business expenses and all are valid deductions by the IRS. Other than depreciation, there are no other expenses. That leaves $225,000 in profit so far.</p>
<p>Now let&#8217;s assume the business owner purchases a new piece of equipment for $100,000. Since $100,000 was spent as a legitimate business expense, you&#8217;d think that it would be acceptable to deduct this expense from the gross income, giving a profit of $125,000.</p>
<p>Nope says the IRS. Even though you paid for this piece of equipment in full, you have to spread out its cost over its useful lifetime. And, the IRS being what it is, has charts saying what the useful lifetime is for every conceivable item. For this example, let&#8217;s say the IRS says the lifetime is 10 years.</p>
<p>So, to determine the business deduction, you divide the cost of the equipment ($100,000) by its useful lifetime (10 years) giving you a permitted deduction of $10,000 per year for 10 years. This type of depreciation gives an equal amount for each year, and if you draw a line on a chart for the annual depreciation, you get a straight line. Somebody decided to call this &#8220;straight line depreciation&#8221; So far so good. So for out example, the $225,000 in profit would be reduced by $10,000, reflecting one year&#8217;s worth of straight line depreciation.</p>
<p><strong>Accelerated Depreciation</strong></p>
<p>Now here&#8217;s where it starts to get complicated. In 1981, Congress said it would be a good thing to allow business owners a tax break if they bought new equipment. To accomplish this goal, accelerated depreciation was invented, otherwise known as the Accelerated Cost Recovery System, known as ACRS for short. Using hypothetical numbers, ACRS would allow our business owner to obtain more depreciation early on at the expense of less depreciation down the road. For example, ACRS might allow 60% of the cost to be deducted the first four years, 20% of the cost spread out over the next two years, and the remaining 20% spread out equally over the remaining four years. Thus, under ACRS, the depreciation might be 15%-15%-15%-15%-10%-10%-5%-5%-5%-5%.</p>
<p>In 1986, Congress said that ACRS needed to be changed, and modified the depreciation schedule, giving us the Modified Accelerated Cost Recovery System, otherwise known as MACRS. Using hypothetical numbers, the depreciation schedule for our machine was changed to 20% the first year, 20% the second year, 15% for the third, 15% for the fourth year, and 5% for each of the remaining years. Thus under MACRS, the depreciation would be 20%-20%-15%-15%-5%-5%-5%-5%-5%-5%.</p>
<p>Separate from ACRS and MACRS, there is also the Section 179 expenses, which in simple terms, allows a business to deduct 100% of the expenses associated with certain qualified property in the year in which it was purchased. And for those who have made it this far, a Section 179 expense deduction is an exception to the depreciation rule. Remember, our tax code consists of rules, exceptions to the rules, and exceptions to the exceptions.</p>
<p>So turning back to the example, let&#8217;s say we are using MACRS, and the equipment is in the second year of service, giving a 20% depreciation deduction. Thus, for tax purposes, the net income is $125,000 less 20% of the cost (20% of $100,000 being $20,000), for a bottom line of $105,000.</p>
<p>But for child support, DRL 240 (1-b)(b) (vi)(A), and its twin companion, FCA 413 (b)(5) (vi)(A) require that any depreciation over the straight line be added back in. The straight line depreciation gives 10% of the total cost, or $10,000. The business properly deducted $20,000 under MACRS. Thus, any amount of depreciation over $10,000 is added back in. As $20,000 &#8211; $10,000 = $10,000, the income for child support is properly determined to be $105,000 plus $10,000, or $115,000.</p>
<p>In reality, the IRS has numerous classification of property, ranging from three to twenty years for personal property, and 27.5 &amp; 30 years for buildings.</p>
<p><strong>Examples</strong></p>
<p>Now for two real examples. In one case, I represented the custodial parent, and got the credit for the increased depreciation added back in when the non custodial parent&#8217;s income was determined. In another case, I represented the non custodial parent. The judge was about to disallow all depreciation expenses, since they were only &#8220;paper losses.&#8221; I showed the judge this section of the statute, and preserved the deduction, thereby lowering the child support obligation.</p>
<p>For both cases, I anticipated that the court may not properly apply this section of the statute, and had several hard copies of the section ready to show the court. As a practice tip to any attorney dealing with the self employed, I&#8217;d recommend doing the same, highlighting the section helps greatly too.</p>
<p>One final point that&#8217;s worth repeating &#8211; this section of the child support statute simply disallows a legitimate deduction. There is no artificial manipulation of income or expenses going on.</p>
<p>View full post on <a href="http://jdbar.net/?p=96">New York Family Law and Divorce</a></p>
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		<title>Getting Divorced and Wife Pregnant &#8211; How Not to Rebut Presumption of Paternity</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Mar 2010 14:19:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The law setting out the presumption of paternity is found at Indiana Code section 31-14-7-1.  This 2004 Indiana Court of Appeals opinion, Richard v. Richard, 812 NE 2d 222, gives us an idea of how not to address a questionable child of the marriage:


In the case at bar, Carl and Carmen&#8217;s divorce was finalized [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The law setting out the presumption of paternity is found at Indiana Code section <a href="http://www.in.gov/legislative/ic/code/title31/ar14/ch7.html">31-14-7-1</a>.  This 2004 Indiana Court of Appeals opinion,<a href="http://scholar.google.com/scholar_case?case=11560464208797240209&amp;q=Indiana+%22dissolution+of+marriage%22+pregnant+wife&amp;hl=en&amp;as_sdt=2002&amp;as_ylo=1991"> <span style="font-style: italic;">Richard v. Richard</span>, 812 NE 2d 222</a>, gives us an idea of how <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">not</span> to address a questionable child of the marriage:
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<blockquote><div style="text-align: justify;">In the case at bar, Carl and Carmen&#8217;s divorce was finalized on September 15, 2000, and C.R.R. was born on June 1, 2001—well within the 300 day period set forth in I.C. § 31-14-7-1(1)(B). In addition, DNA testing indicated that there is a 99.999% probability that Carl fathered C.R.R. Nevertheless, the presumption may be rebutted by direct, clear, and convincing evidence that the husband: (1) is impotent; (2) was absent so as to have no access to the mother; (3) was absent during the entire time the child must have been conceived; (4) was present with the mother only in circumstances which clearly prove there was no sexual intercourse; (5) was sterile during the time the child must have been conceived; or (6) can show that the DNA test of another man indicates a 99% probability that the man is the child&#8217;s father combined with uncontradicted evidence that the man had sexual intercourse with the mother at the time the child must have been conceived. <a href="http://scholar.google.com/scholar_case?case=5656883547821429347&amp;q=Minton+v.+Weaver&amp;hl=en&amp;as_sdt=2002">Minton v. Weaver</a>, 697 N.E.2d 1259, 1260 (Ind.Ct.App.1998), trans. denied. However, the record reveals no such evidence here.</p>
<p>To the contrary, Carl&#8217;s testimony shows that, although he adamantly denies having sex with Carmen, he had access to her during the period of time that C.R.R. would have been conceived. Likewise, he presented no evidence that he was impotent or sterile. Our supreme court has previously held: &#8220;[f]or the putative father to merely state that he did not have relations with his wife when he had opportunity to, regardless of the quality or credibility of his testimony, is not sufficient to set aside the presumption.&#8221; <a href="http://scholar.google.com/scholar_case?q=L.F.R.+v.+R.A.R&amp;hl=en&amp;as_sdt=2002&amp;case=2207085044673418249">L.F.R. v. R.A.R</a>., 269 Ind. 97, 99, 378 N.E.2d 855, 857 (Ind.1978).</p>
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<blockquote>Despite Carl&#8217;s contentions, we find nothing in Charles&#8217; testimony that constitutes 228 the direct, clear, and convincing proof necessary to overcome the statutory presumption that Carl is the biological father of C.R.R. See Minton, 697 N.E.2d at 1260. Thus, in the same vein that our supreme court has held that a putative father cannot overcome the presumption by merely denying he had relations with his wife, we hold that Carl cannot overcome the statutory presumption of paternity by merely presenting testimony of his identical twin brother that the child is probably his and he is willing to pay child support. See L.F.R. 378 N.E.2d at 857. As a result, we hold that the trial court committed no error in determining that Carl is the biological father of C.R.R.</p></blockquote>
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		<title>Here Comes the Judge: A Little Insight for Your Child Custody and Divorce Case</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Michael Mastracci, an attorney from Baltimore, Maryland, publishes one of my favorite blogs, &#8220;Divorce Without Dishonor.&#8221; He is a huge proponent of utilizing the collaborative law model in divorce and custody matters whenever possible. He recently posted an excellent piece, with which I agree, well worth sharing. I have added a few of my own [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Michael Mastracci, an attorney from Baltimore, Maryland, publishes one of my favorite blogs, &#8220;<a href="http://www.divorcewithoutdishonor.com/"  target="_blank" title="Divorce Without Dishonor" class="liexternal">Divorce Without Dishonor</a>.&#8221; He is a huge proponent of utilizing the collaborative law model in divorce and custody matters whenever possible. He recently posted an excellent piece, with which I agree, well worth sharing. I have added a few of my own thoughts at the end.</p>
<p style="line-height: 20px;background: #EDF6FD;margin-right:20px;margin-left:20px; margin-top:3.8px; margin-bottom:10px; text-indent:20px;padding:5px;"><I>When I was in law school one of the adjunct professors was a circuit court judge with years of experience presiding over cases involving dueling parents arguing about virtually every aspect of their children&#8217;s lives. His advice, probably the best advice in three years of law school, was to</I><B><I> know your judge</I></B><I>. His Honor was not speaking about knowing the judge personally (although that never hurts) but knowing what he or she is likely to do in any given situation or factual scenario. What does that mean?</I></p>
<p style="line-height: 20px;background: #EDF6FD;margin-right:20px;margin-left:20px; margin-top:3.8px; margin-bottom:10px; text-indent:20px;padding:5px;"><I>When I was in law school one of the adjunct professors was a circuit court judge with years of experience presiding over cases involving dueling parents arguing about virtually every aspect of their children&#8217;s lives. His advice, probably the best advice in three years of law school, was to</I><B><I> know your judge</I></B><I>. His Honor was not speaking about knowing the judge personally (although that never hurts) but knowing what he or she is likely to do in any given situation or factual scenario. What does that mean?</I></p>
<p style="line-height: 20px;background: #EDF6FD;margin-right:20px;margin-left:20px; margin-top:3.8px; margin-bottom:10px; text-indent:20px;padding:5px;"><I>People often tend to forget that judges are people, people who likely either knew the governor or knew people close to the governor in order to get appointed. Judges are not necessarily appointed because they are smart. There is no judgeship test or certification to wear the robe once appointed (that is </I><B><I>appointed</I></B><I> and not </I><B><I>anointed</I></B><I> as some may think).</I></p>
<p style="line-height: 20px;background: #EDF6FD;margin-right:20px;margin-left:20px; margin-top:3.8px; margin-bottom:10px; text-indent:20px;padding:5px;"><I>There are many judges who care deeply about the divorce and child custody litigants that come before them. There are many fine judges that have earned the respect of the lawyers and the citizens that appear before them. They may have the best of intentions and have all the good qualities one may hope for and yet they may make a ruling that will haunt you and your family for years to come. Why would you let this happen?</I></p>
<p style="line-height: 20px;background: #EDF6FD;margin-right:20px;margin-left:20px; margin-top:3.8px; margin-bottom:10px; text-indent:20px;padding:5px;"><I>While judges generally receive a great deal of respect you cannot forget that they are people too and we all have shortcomings and we all have faults and areas of our lives that could use some improvement. A judge goes to work just like anyone else. For a judge, deciding the custody and child access issues of your case would be just a routine part of any given day; just another day at the office. Don&#8217;t lose sight of these sorts of things when you decide to take your business to the courthouse. From this day forward, make sure you are in the business of co-parenting.</I></p>
<p style="line-height: 20px;background: #EDF6FD;margin-right:20px;margin-left:20px; margin-top:3.8px; margin-bottom:10px; text-indent:20px;padding:5px;"><B><I>And remember, when a court order is entered, it lasts until your child reaches the age of majority unless modified by agreement or subsequent court order. Look for alternatives to litigation and do all you can to Stop Fighting Over the Kids.</I></B></p>
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		<title>An English Idea To Pay Attention To: Collaborative Prenups</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Mar 2010 14:36:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[From Family Law Week comes Collaborative prenuptial agreements find favour


According to The Law Society’s Gazette, a rising number of clients contemplating marriage are asking for prenuptial agreements to be prepared using the collaborative law model. The report records a shift in attitude among clients who would prefer to adopt a more consensual approach to agreeing [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From <span style="font-style: italic;">Family Law Week</span> comes<a href="http://www.familylawweek.co.uk/site.aspx?i=ed51377"> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">Collaborative prenuptial agreements find favour</span></a>
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<blockquote>According to The Law Society’s Gazette, a rising number of clients contemplating marriage are asking for prenuptial agreements to be prepared using the collaborative law model. The report records a shift in attitude among clients who would prefer to adopt a more consensual approach to agreeing a pre-nuptial agreement rather than employ the more traditional, oppositional method of negotiation.</p></blockquote>
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		<description><![CDATA[Pay attention to 10 things your children will thank you for from Woolley and Co. Solicitors:


1. Keeping arguments away from them and avoid criticism of the other parent.2. Being able to talk to the other parent about their needs (even though it may be hard sometimes)3. Allowing them to miss the other parent and make [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Pay attention to<a href="http://www.family-lawfirm.co.uk/Articles/Children/10-things-your-children-will-thank-you-for.aspx"> <span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;">10 things your children will thank you for</span></a> from Woolley and Co. Solicitors:
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<blockquote>1. Keeping arguments away from them and avoid criticism of the other parent.<br />2. Being able to talk to the other parent about their needs (even though it may be hard sometimes)<br />3. Allowing them to miss the other parent and make contact when they want to, even encouraging contact when you think they might want it.<br />4. Recognise they have feelings which might be confusing and contradictory.<br />5. Ask them what they think and listen to what they say (but do not make them responsible for decisions)<br />6. Value them as developing people with their own friends and networks<br />7. Remember they can cope with different rules so long as they know what to expect in each household.<br />8. Be consistent about arrangements made and not letting them down<br />9. Be flexible to their changing needs.<br />10. KNOWING THEY LOVE YOU BOTH AND WANT TO BE ABLE TO EXPRESS THEIR LOVE </p></blockquote>
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<p>I am going to suggest that the parent who cannot do these 10 things ought not be thinking of joint or shared custody.</p>
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		<title>How to Move on After Divorce</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Tips to Rebuild Your Life and Your Goals after Divorce contains some good advice.  The information there is not really specific to Alabama divorce law. In fact, the article doesn&#8217;t really deal with divorce laws at all.  Rather, the focus of the article is on how to move on with your life after divorce.  And, [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><a href="http://www.sanluisobispo.com/living/family_relationships/story/702316.html">Tips to Rebuild Your Life and Your Goals</a> after Divorce contains some good advice.  The information there is not really specific to Alabama divorce law. In fact, the article doesn&#8217;t really deal with divorce laws at all.  Rather, the focus of the article is on how to move on with your life after divorce.  And, on that note it is helpful.</p>
<p>Here is a summary of the tips there:</p>
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<li>Work through your grief</li>
<li>Recognize your survival mechanisms</li>
<li>Assess your talents</li>
<li>Start living consciously</li>
<li>Write your own story</li>
<li>Develop a project for the future</li>
<li>Plan for obstacles</li>
<li>Deal with the fears</li>
<li>Take incredible care of yourself along the way</li>
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<p>Check out the link above to read the details for each step.  If you are recently divorced or going through a divorce now, it is worth a read.  The last tip is really what the entire article is about: taking care of yourself.  When I am helping a client go through an Alabama divorce, I try to urge them to take care of themselves mentally, phyiscally, emotionally and spiritually.  Often divorce attorneys are so focused on protecting our clients in their legal case, that it is easy to overlook these equally important issues of their health.  So, not only is this a good article for someone going through divorce, it was a good reminder to me, as a divorce lawyer, to not lose site of this important aspect of my client&#8217;s life.</p>
<p>This post from the <a href="http://alabamafamilylawblog.com">AlabamaFamilyLawBlog.com</a> where you can find information about Alabama divorce and family law.</p>
<p><a href="http://alabamafamilylawblog.com/?p=472">How to Move on After Divorce</a></p>
<p>Related divorce and family law info:
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<li><a href='http://alabamafamilylawblog.com/?p=294' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Should I move out of the house?'>Should I move out of the house?</a> <small>There is no blanket answer to this question. It depends&#8230;</small></li>
<li><a href='http://alabamafamilylawblog.com/?p=253' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Top 10 Mistakes Made in Divorce'>Top 10 Mistakes Made in Divorce</a> <small>The Indy Star has this article posted today. It focuses&#8230;</small></li>
<li><a href='http://alabamafamilylawblog.com/?p=251' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Divorce spikes in January'>Divorce spikes in January</a> <small>The commonly held opinion among many divorce professionals is that&#8230;</small></li>
<li><a href='http://alabamafamilylawblog.com/?p=226' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: Divorce Preparation: Step 10 - Stay Put (until further notice)'>Divorce Preparation: Step 10 &#8211; Stay Put (until further notice)</a> <small>Divorce Preparation: Step 10 &#8211; Stay Put (until further notice)&#8230;</small></li>
<li><a href='http://alabamafamilylawblog.com/?p=531' rel='bookmark' title='Permanent Link: 7 Steps to Survive Divorce'>7 Steps to Survive Divorce</a> <small>I came across this excellent article entitled, 7 Steps to&#8230;</small></li>
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<p>View full post on <a href="http://alabamafamilylawblog.com/?p=472">AlabamaFamilyLawBlog.com</a></p>
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