At the Law Offices of Scott David Stewart, our attorneys regularly meet with fathers requesting child custody related legal representation. These fathers want regular, significant involvement with their children. Fathers often believe that their best parenting efforts have been thwarted, through no fault of their own. The Court system may have worked to frustrate the father’s efforts. The Judge in the divorce may have ruled against the father. The opposing party may have pushed an agenda to minimize the father’s role in their children’s lives. Regardless of how it occurred, both father and child suffer when a father’s parenting role is diminished.

In Arizona child custody cases, both parents have their actions, judgments, and statements scrutinized by both the Child Custody Evaluator and the Court. One of the key components in a custody case is the level of each parent’s involvement with the child. When a father seeks significant involvement with his child, he must be committed, fully prepared, and have a plan.

The father in a custody case must convince the Judge or custody evaluator that he should be given equal access to the children for parenting time. If the father seeks primary custody, then it is absolutely essential that he establish the requisite dedication, character, and responsible nature to be there for his child “day-in and day-out.”

With our experience in fathers’ rights, we have learned to recognize some common mistakes that fathers make in their child custody cases. The suggestions below are a vital part of any father’s successful child custody case.

Child custody cases often involve accusations that the father hasn’t been spending time with the children. Because child custody cases can take months to resolve, and require full and accurate descriptions of parenting time, you should document — on a calendar or in a parenting journal — what occurred during parenting time. Failure to account accurately for parenting time in a child custody case may seriously damage your credibility. Document special activities with the child, such as a trip to the park, a swim at a neighborhood pool, a special events with friends, a child’s softball game, or time spent with extended family.

Father’s need to be involved in their children’s extracurricular activities. Whenever possible, adjust your schedule so you can be there, personally, to witness your child’s participation in these activities. If your child has a particular interest, such as math and science, then investigate the kinds of classes and activities that will help your child develop that interest. Think about activities that you would like to participate in, too. Your personal interest will show in your genuine enthusiasm. Look to activities that draw on interests your child has talked about.

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Once you’ve identified an activity, investigate implementation. Learn where your child can pursue the activity, and be prepared to show proximity to your home. Also, try to show how any actual or planned activities, such as swimming lessons or softball, will work into a proposed parenting schedule.

Make sure that you know who your child’s coaches are, and with any team sport, know who the child’s teammates are. Be knowledgeable not only about the position your child plays, but about the team’s overall performance record. Make sure that you are up to date on the team’s practice and game schedule.

Issues over a father’s uninvolvement in the child’s extracurricular activities may be the result of being “left out of the loop,” so to speak. If the activity was initiated by the mother, and she failed to consult with you, then be proactive and discuss the activity with her. Make sure that you save copies of emails and text messages on the topic. Maybe the mother doesn’t notify you of dates, times, and locations for games and practices. Don’t be victim to the whims of the other parent, and don’t leave yourself vulnerable to accusations of poor parenting. Do your homework, investigate and get your child’s schedule from a team-player’s parent, from the league representative, or from the organization’s activity website. Get your name on the email distribution list for newsletters, game times and locations, and practice locations and schedule changes. In that way, you will not be reliant on the other parent’s good will, and you’ll stay apprised of your child’s schedule.

The more involved you can demonstrate you are with your child’s activities, the stronger your child custody case will be. Don’t let yourself be characterized as an uninterested father with no time for the child because you’re a chronic no-show at the child’s activities. Get involved early on, arrange to get every schedule, show up at the child’s activities, and always stay connected.

To fully understand how your child’s education is progressing, there is perhaps no simpler method than to actively participate in the process. Help your child work through homework assignments and special event projects, such as the school’s annual science fair. A little guidance from an interested, supportive father goes a long way toward helping your child achieve, accomplish, and gain confidence.

Be knowledgeable about your child’s education. Be cognizant of your child’s strengths and weaknesses. Be aware of any problems at school and after school. Get to know all of your child’s teachers. The teachers will, in turn, get to know you because you’re a father who makes himself available and is fully engaged in the student’s homework and projects. These are all significant, persuasive factors that demonstrate how you have been consistently involved, focused, and engaged in your child’s education.

Of all the educational special events involving your child, probably the most influential is the parent-teacher conference. Attend the conference fully prepared to discuss all aspects of your child’s educational progress and society at the school. Be knowledgeable and apprised of every element of your child’s educational development. If you, as a father, desire equal parenting time with the child’s mother, or desire to be the child’s primary custodial parent, then it is absolutely critical that you show your parenting commitment and attend parent-teacher conferences as scheduled.

If you desire significant parenting involvement, then your commitment, preparation, and planning could not be better illustrated than with a well developed child daycare plan. Many fathers are unsuccessful in custody cases because their child care plan was inadequate or nonexistent.

You must be prepared to demonstrate:

1) How you will properly care for their child while you’re at work.

2) How you will make adjustments to your work schedule.

3) How you will be flexible with needed care for the child.

4) How you will transport the child to activities and events.

5) How you will be as involved in your child’s life as you claim you want to be.

When it comes to daycare you should be very knowledgeable about, and very familiar with, the people who will care for your child. Know the name of the person in charge of the daycare facility. Know whether there are records about your child’s activities and behavior and, if there are, obtain copies for your custody case. Determine whether you’ll drop the child off or pick the child up (or both) at daycare, and get any records documenting your having done so. Be very involved in the selection of daycare providers for your child, including the interview process of potential providers. Make sure you investigate any problems that the facility has presently or has had in the past.

To be fully prepared for your child custody case, when you speak with the child’s school, a daycare provider, or a medical provider, take the time to document who you spoke with. List the names, addresses, telephone numbers, and email contacts of the people you communicated with and summarize what you discussed with them.

Lastly, establish your ability to care for your child with supporting documents. For each and every aspect of raising the child — education, medical decisions, religious decisions, extracurricular activities, and the like — find something to document your involvement. Include formal and informal records, brochures, letters, emails, handwritten notes, and any writing that can be submitted in the child custody case on your behalf. Never miss an opportunity to collect evidence supporting your ability to parent your child.

All kind of child custody information needs to be understood completely. In general courts do not allow the custody to the abusing partner. There are clearly laid out procedures to deal with the issue of separating parents and their children. In most of the cases courts follow these procedures to decide over the custody of the child. These procedures are basically designed to make sure that the child does not go to the environment where some kind of mental or physical abuse is imminent.

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Some solutions are offered in this regard by the courts. Though, your child custody attorney is definitely going to fight for your case, in many cases courts decide in favor of joint custody. In such cases parents share both the physical and legal custody of the children. That way, both of them become the functional part of raising the children.

In legal terms Legal custody refer to the right and responsibility to take decisions about important issues of health, education and many other things. On the other hand, Physical custody refers to an understanding in which the child largely lives with one parent and goes to live with the other parent in vacations. In general, courts assign both the custody to either of the parents. But, yes, there are circumstances when courts decide in favor of joint custody. In cases custody is awarded to one party, the other one need to pay child custody support.

Child custody support is basically the financial support that the parent with the responsibility of bringing up the child is entitled to get from the other side. Basically, it refers to financial support. This figure comes after looking at various factors. Your child custody attorney will definitely guide you over it. There are many other ways to reach at its figure. There are some portals that offer all kinds of child custody help, and just not the financial details.

Childcustodysupportonline.com is one such portal that brings all the information. It also provide a child custody calculator that helps in figuring out the financial liabilities of a child custody case.

There are several different categories of child custody arrangements. When parents go through a divorce, they have the choice of deciding the child custody arrangements on their own. However, in most cases, they are unable to come to an agreeable decision. If this happens, a court will decide the child custody arrangement. There are four basic categories of child custody arrangements- joint legal custody, sole legal custody, sole physical custody, and joint physical custody. While the specifics of each kind can vary from one state to another, they do share certain characteristics. To begin with, there are two categories of legal custody arrangements. Legal custody primarily refers to the rights and responsibilities as they relate to the child and can include things like health, education, and general well-being. In case of joint legal custody, both parents share these responsibilities. Joint legal custody mandates that the parents should be able to work together with one another for the benefits of the children. It also mandates that the parents submit a detailed plan to the court about how the joint legal custody can work. The other sort of legal custody arrangement is sole legal custody, in which one parent has those legal rights and responsibilities. In this type of custody the non-custodial parent can still have visitation rights. However the non-custodial parent will have few other rights regarding the kids. There are also two kinds of physical custody arrangements – sole physical custody and joint legal custody. In the first type – sole physical custody, one parent has the majority of contact with the child, and the child lives exclusively with that parent. In sole physical custody, the non-custodial parent may again still retain visitation rights. Both parents have plenty of contact with the child in case of a joint physical custody. Child custody litigation is complex. Consult with a seasoned divorce law firm.

Physical Custody

If you have physical custody over your child, you have the right to have your child physically live with you. In some states, joint physical custody of a child is allowed. In that case, you and your ex-spouse have equal amounts of time for custody of your child. Physical custody is a good option since it allows you and your ex-spouse to spend a maximum amount of time with your child. However, this type of custody will work only if you and your ex-spouse live near each other. To prevent conflict from affecting your child, you and the other parent should have a cordial and workable relationship.

Legal Custody

This custody option gives you the right and responsibility to decide about the upbringing of your child. Legal custody means you can decide for your child in terms of healthcare, schooling, and religious upbringing. Most states allow parents to have joint legal custody of their children, so both parents can make decisions involving the child. The only problem with legal custody is that conflicts and misunderstandings may arise when the upbringing principles of parents clash. This conflict can be detrimental to their child.

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Sole Custody

As the term suggests, sole custody gives custodial rights to only one parent while the other parent’s rights is limited only to visiting the child. This arrangement is used when the child may be harmed in one parent’s home. Among all types of child custody, sole custody is the least disruptive to the child. Because of the very limited interaction of one of the parents to the child, this type of custody may lead to conflict between parents.

Joint Custody

This arrangement is used when parents agree to share decision-making rights over their child’s upbringing. Usually, parents agree to coordinate their schedules so that joint custody will work. Sometimes, a court orders the parents to do it. Joint custody of a child may be joint physical custody, joint legal custody, or both.

Children of divorcing parents benefit from joint custody because they are guaranteed of continuous involvement and contact of both parents. This type of custody also lessens the burden of child rearing to each parent. However, it can be a disadvantage because children have to be moved often from one parent’s house to another parent’s house, and this setup can be costly.

Bird’s Nest Custody

In this type of child custody, the child still lives in the family home while the parents take turns moving in and out. Although this arrangement is not disruptive for the child, it can cause problems for parents, particularly in decision-making. This will work only if parents have other places to live during off days.

The Rhode Island Family Court judge utilizes the “best interest of the child” standard in Rhode Island Child Custody and Child Visitation cases. The Factors a Family Court Judge should use in making a “best interest of the child” determination are set forth in the seminal Rhode Island case of Pettinato v Pettinato, 589 A.2d 909 (R.I. 1990)

Child Custody, Visitation and Placement issues are usually determined by the RI Family Court in Divorce , Post Divorce, Paternity, DCYF, Family Law, and Child Custody Cases.

This Rhode Island Law Article was authored by a Rhode Island Divorce Lawyer and Rhode Island Child Custody Attorney, David Slepkow.  401-437-1100

The Basics of Legal Custody

The Judge of the Rhode Island Family Court can award either sole legal custody to a parent or may award Joint Legal Custody to both parents. The issue of legal custody is completely independent of the issue of visitation. RI Visitation Rights are beyond the scope of this Rhode Island Law Article. Please Consult with Rhode Island Child Custody Lawyer David Slepkow about the facts of your case.
         
Sole Legal custody

Sole Legal Custody means that a parent can make all important and major decisions concerning a child’s health, welfare and upbringing without consulting with the other parent.  These major decisions include religious, educational, medical and general welfare decisions. The parent with sole custody of the child will also have physical placement of the child. The parent with sole legal custody has complete access to medical, educational and other records related to the child.

Joint Legal Custody

Joint Legal Custody means both parents should be involved in major / important decisions concerning a child’s upbringing, education, medical and religious welfare. Theoretically, both parents with joint custody have equal rights in making important decisions regarding their child or children. Both parents have full rights to access all medical, educational and other records pertaining to the child. In order for joint Custody to be feasible, the parents must have some level of communication and respect for each other to allow them to co-parent.

Physical Placement – Physical custody

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The Court must also award to one parent physical placement of the child or children. Physical placement is where the child will be living on a day to day basis. Physical placement is also commonly known as “physical custody” The parent who does not have physical custody of the child will have reasonable visitation rights. The parent with physical placement of a minor child has the right to receive Rhode Island Child support from the parent who has visitation rights. Child Support is typically determined by the Rhode Island Child Support Guidelines

Shared Physical Placement

Shared Physical placement (Shared Physical custody) is when the child splits time residing with both parents.  Shared Physical placement is relatively rare in Rhode Island. In some instances the child may be placed with one parent for half the week and then the other parent the other half of the week. Some parents will alternate weeks or months. This type of arrangement is usually only done by agreement of the parties and is rarely ordered by the Court Absent an agreement.

Split Physical Placement

Split physical Placement is when one child lives with the father and one child lives with the mother. It can also be when the children are split in away so that at least one child lives with a parent and at least one child lives with mother.

      
If the Parents cannot agree to Legal Custody, Physical Placement or Visitation, then The RI Family court must determine what is in the “best interest of the child” This is very subjective and analytical standard.

It is advisable to contact a Rhode Island Divorce Lawyer or a RI Family Law Attorney to get legal advice concerning the facts and circumstances in your case. There are 8 basic factors that the judge should look at in determining the best interest of the child. These factors are used by the court in determining both physical and legal custody of children

must be made in the ‘best interest[s]‘ of the child.” quoting Petition of Loudin “[T]he best interests of the child standard remains amorphous and its implementation has been left to the sound discretion of the trial justices.” Id. Several factors must be taken into consideration by the Judge in making a best interest of the child determination. However, no single factor is determinative; rather “[t]he trial justice must consider a combination of and an interaction among all the relevant factors that affect the child’s best interests.” Among the factors the court must consider are the following:

1. The wishes of the child’s parent or parents regarding the child’s custody.
2. The reasonable preference of the child, if the court deems the child to be of sufficient intelligence, understanding, and experience to express a preference.
3. The interaction and interrelationship of the child with the child’s parent or parents, the child’s siblings, and any other person who may significantly affect the child’s best interest.
4. The child’s adjustment to the child’s home, school, and community.
5. The mental and physical health of all individuals involved.
6. The stability of the child’s home environment.
7. The moral fitness of the child’s parents.
8. The willingness and ability of each parent to facilitate a close and continuous parent-child relationship between the child and the other parent.”  Pettinato v. Pettinato, 582 A.2d 909, 913-14 (R.I. 1990).

In many contested child custody cases, Professionals such as Social workers, Therapists, Psychologists, and the Guardian ad litem for the children may play a major role.

Rhode Island Attorneys legal Notice per RI Rules of Professional Responsibility:
The Rhode Island Supreme Court licenses all lawyers / attorneys in the general practice of law, but does not license or certify any lawyer or attorney as an expert or specialist in any field of practice.

The following are some of the most commonly repeated questions from people who are unfamiliar with the subject. The answers provided represent answers collected from various child custody attorneys. While it is obvious that child custody laws are not the same for all states, the following answers are couched in general terms. Certainly, you must consult local experts to determine whether these answers apply to your own situation.

“Custody” is the determinant that states who is the party responsible for the child or children in cases where their parents do not live together. This applies to couples who are either separated, divorced, or who have never been married to each other but are the biological parents.

When a parent has physical custody, it refers to a situation in which the child will spend time living with that parent on a regular basis. If custody is “joint physical custody”, then the child is shuttled between the parent’s homes.

When a parent has “sole legal custody”, that parent has the sole right to make decisions on the child’s education, health, and overall welfare (schools, doctor, etc). In “joint legal custody” both parents share in making the relevant decisions.

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A judge typically gives his or her approval to a custody plan once it is agreed upon by the parents. If the parents are not able to agree, they will be required to speak with a counselor or mediator to help them work out a plan. The judge is required to make the decision on any disputed issues that both parties are not willing to resolve.

Certainly. The court will usually issue an order stating that the non-custodial parent be given generous visitation rights with the child. However, this can, and will, be restricted in cases where domestic violence has occurred or is suspected, or in cases where a parent’s ability to care for the child is under question.

The non-custodial parent can ask the court for a “contempt” order. The parent who is denying visitation can receive court sanctions. If it can be proven that it was done intentionally, the non-custodial parent may have grounds to sue to be granted the child’s custody. The judge usually will first require the couple to attempt to work out things with the help of a mediator.

Parents can usually change a custody arrangement if it doesn’t work, provided they are able to come up with a new plan and they ask the judge to make it official. If the parents continue to disagree, they can ask the judge to make the changes. The judge’s decision is expected to be based on the child’s best interests. This can be difficult if the child is being well-cared for or if the custody plan had been in place for some time.

In the State of California, a judge must give consideration to the parents first, either singly or together. A judge can, however, give custody to another relative (a grandmother, step-parent) or a friend, regardless of the parents’ consent. This can occur if the judge believes that giving custody of the child to either parent would be detrimental to the child.

If you are involved in a custody dispute, it is vitally important to have access to a reliable Child Custody Guide that can fully explain all the complications that can, and usually do, arise in a custody case.  Knowing what to expect, and how to handle the situations that will arise, will greatly help you to win your case.

Typically, the best situation for a child in a divorce, child custody, and child visitation matter is when both parents manage to solve their personal differences to reach an agreement or parenting plan or child visitation schedule out of court. In this case, any agreements reached between both parents can become the parenting plan. When a parenting plan is created and child visitation and child custody issues are resolved, it may not require anymore matters to be brought to the court even if the child is very young. A decade ago, the family courts would often give infant visitation guidelines preventing the non-custodial parent from spending a lot of time with his/her child. Such provisions are not valid anymore, but rather frequent and continuous contact with both parents is encouraged. Off court agreements does not necessarily need to be translated in a written contract and signed by both parents. However, parents may be well advised to have a written and signed parenting plan for future reference in case a child custody or child visitation dispute arises. It can also be used as a stipulation between both parties and then issued as a court order for future enforcement purposes.

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Now, what if the parents are not able to reach an agreement on child visitation or child custody? Both parents will often be required to participate in a mediation process before having a court hearing or before a judge hears the case. Typically, the two parents will be assisted to work out a parenting plan by a third-party or mediator, who can be an experienced attorney or social worker. Many child visitation and child custody issues find a happy ending through mediation sessions resulting in a parenting plan agreement, which can then be presented as a stipulation ad then as a court order.

Generally, the worst case is when mediation fails. In this situation, the next step is typically for a court hearing in order to solve the issues. Judges nowadays often require custody evaluations of the family by experts in the field of child psychiatry, psychology or mental health. Licensed social workers can also be called to present evidence for consideration by the court. Once all pieces of evidence have been presented, the court will typically make its decision. This is the worst case child custody and child visitation dispute method because it can be very complex, expensive, and long-draw out. In some highly contested child custody and child visitation cases, child custody and child visitation disputes will eventually result in denying child custody and child visitation rights to one of the parent.

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